Comments on: Rope Swings and Avalanches

By: Mynde

Mynde — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 02:05:22 +0000

Thanks @Mike! I’m so grateful that I was able to get connected to some fab people during our Mastermind days. You are just one of them. And even more fun was finally meeting in real life, hanging out and chatting over a couple of beers.

Always and forever, WYSIWYG… and that ain’t no tech speak neither ;)

Hugs!

By: Mike Stankavich

Mike Stankavich — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:30:03 +0000

Mynde, this was an exceptionally brave and honest post. I particularly appreciate how you walked a fine line between being honest about your feelings, but avoided being vindictive or petty. As you know, I was in most of those mastermind calls, and I was very saddened to see a partnership with such promise collapse. But it takes commitment from both sides, and as you point out, Wendy’s path took her in a different direction.

I don’t blame you a bit for being hurt by the way things played out. Breaking up is hard at best, but when somebody pulls away without explanation, that leaves only hurt and rejection with no recourse.

Although I attempted to avoid taking sides, it became clear to me over time that Wendy has also chosen to pull back from interacting with me as well. That was not my choice, but apparently, as with Mynde, I became part of the past, but not part of the future.

I would like to join Mynde in saying goodbye. I hope that Wendy is able to find what she’s looking for and that she meets with success in her future endeavors.

Remember, this too will pass. And this post was a big step forward.

Speaking of interacting, it was a complete joy to finally meet you in person last Friday. Folks, if there’s one thing to know about Mynde, it’s this: what you see is indeed what you get. Wise, witty, and a bit wacky (in a good way of course!). I only wish we had had more time to visit. We’ll definitely have to block out more time next time.
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By: Mynde

Mynde — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 04:46:59 +0000

Hi @Diane!
I guess the day finally came where the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~ Anais Nin

Thank you for your big hug! xo

By: Mynde

Mynde — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 04:39:58 +0000

Thanks @Michele Mollkoy stopping by. After writing it, I felt loads better. Then the negotiations with myself began for actually pressing the publish button. I'm glad I did because I've received more comments on this post than any other. So I guess my "this is what it looks like to pull yourself up by the bootstraps" resonates. Thank you for your compliments. They make my (bigger) bruised heart feel warm.

By: Diane Sutton

Diane Sutton — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:53:00 +0000

Wow Mynde

This is intense. I am taken back by the rawness and openness of your words. It is both moving and challenging to me. I hope you are able to flower and fly because of it and in spite of it.

Sending a big hug your way.

Peace and blessings

Diane

By: Michele Mollkoy

Michele Mollkoy — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 05:24:29 +0000

Mynde,

Thank you for putting yourself out there. I hope that you are already experiencing the benefits of speaking this wrenching and courageous truth to the world. Keep the faith and remember that help is always on the way.

mm
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By: Mynde

Mynde — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 02:22:50 +0000

@Steph thanks for going first. i love short and sweet. it just gets right to the point. and thank you for seeing me. it means the world.

@Jamie thank you for your support. and always being here and over there (FB) and just being around. in my life. cheering me on. reminding me to Love and do it BIG.

@Mark thank you for your jewel exercise. it has been a life saver for me. and so has Remembrance. and I’m so glad I found you. and I have Wendy to thank for that.

@Charlotte well it’s nice to meet you. i hope you’ll come hang out on an optimystical day sometime ;)

@Samantha yes, healing is underway and has been underway. today was a declaration (kinda understatement isn’t it?). I thank you for spending time on my blog and leaving your encouraging words.

@cora yes open. opening. always leading with my heart and looking for ways to keep it that way. loved the flower and pine cone analogy :)

@Vicki in a lot of ways, this post was for you and many others. i felt like i owed an explanation and couldn’t pretend anymore. thank you for acknowledging what you could see even if it wasn’t being said (until today)

@lee there are not words to express what an integral part of this journey you have been to me. I am grateful for the opportunity to know you and serve you and be served by you.

@christy you are always nearby and I appreciate that. you remind me what strength and courage looks like. thank you!

By: Christy

Christy — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:46:14 +0000

Mynde,

you are a courageous beautiful soul. thank you for sharing with us. I hope that writing this has brought some healing and peace to your heart. I’m always here for you. sending hugs your way. Love you.

Christy
Christy´s last blog ..Books That Matter

By: Lee Miller

Lee Miller — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 23:23:27 +0000

Brave & wise Mynde,
What a powerful way to support moving forward and leaving “stuckifying” stuff behind. Bless you for your courage and your truth. I support you in breaking the sick silents and speaking of your grief and pain. Woo-hoo, Mynde. This make huge room for gigantic new space for you to be all that you are right now! Love you, Lee
Lee Miller´s last blog ..Ode to the Dash

By: Vicki

Vicki — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:19:11 +0000

Hi Mynde,

Thanks so much for sharing what you’re going through. I’ve wondered what has been going on with you. You were sending out little bits at a time. You needed to just speak your truth and now you’ve done it. I hope it brings you some comfort, awareness and peace. I love your willingness to be you, with no apologies. This is what I wish for everyone.

I would love to support you in any way that I can. Truly. Know that I’m here for you.
Vicki